Raymond Sonajo is a man who has always believed in the value of commitment, perseverance, and love. A graduate of Computer Science, his academic path reflects his analytical mind and his fascination with how systems work. Yet beyond codes and algorithms, Raymond carries a heart filled with dreams, one of which is to serve his country as a soldier. This desire comes not only from discipline and duty but from a deep calling to contribute to something greater than himself. For Raymond, service is not just about profession, it is about giving back, protecting, and honoring the land and people he holds dear.
While technology and military service might seem worlds apart, what connects them is the same steady determination that defines who Raymond is. Whether he is solving a complex problem, preparing for a future role in service, or dedicating himself to his marriage, he approaches every endeavor with discipline, focus, and sincerity.
On July 18, 2024, Raymond’s life took on an entirely new chapter as he married the love of his life. For him, marriage is not just a union of two people but a promise of partnership. It is about facing challenges together, celebrating joys as one, and building a future that honors both shared dreams and personal growth. This book, How to Maintain a Happy Life with a Happy Wife, is a reflection of that commitment. It is written from his perspective as a husband who understands that true happiness comes not from wealth or status but from nurturing the bond he shares with his wife.
Raymond is not only a thinker and a dreamer but also a man with a soulful passion for music. He loves to sing, and through music, he finds a release and a way to express emotions that words sometimes cannot capture. Singing is his form of storytelling, his way of lightening heavy days and brightening the hearts of those around him. It is one of the many gifts he brings into his marriage, because a home filled with song is a home filled with joy.
When Raymond dreams of the future, he sees not only himself and his wife but also the family they will build together. His heart is set on raising two to three children, a hope that reflects his desire for both intimacy and fullness in family life. To him, children represent both legacy and love. They are reminders that life continues, that lessons are passed on, and that love has the power to grow in ways that reach far beyond the couple themselves.
Raymond’s vision of fatherhood is not one of perfection but of presence. He wants to be the kind of father who listens, who guides, who teaches discipline without forgetting compassion, and who offers encouragement without forgetting accountability. Just as he is committed to being a loving husband, he looks forward to being a father who builds memories and values that his children will carry into their own lives.
Beyond his personal aspirations, Raymond is a man of humor, patience, and grounded values. Those who know him often remark on his ability to balance seriousness with playfulness. He can talk about life’s bigger questions but also laugh at the small absurdities that make marriage and family life both challenging and fun. It is this balance that shines through in his writing, as he reflects on marriage not as a rigid set of rules but as a living journey of growth, laughter, intimacy, and resilience.
In How to Maintain a Happy Life with a Happy Wife, readers will discover a husband’s honest perspective. They will see how Raymond’s own experiences as a student of life, a dreamer of service, a lover of music, and a devoted partner all come together to form a philosophy of marriage that is both lighthearted and profound. His message is simple but powerful: a happy wife is not about submission or one-sided sacrifice, it is about love expressed daily in respect, teamwork, gratitude, and playfulness.
Raymond’s story is still unfolding, and this book is only one chapter of a much larger journey. It is not the end of his lessons as a husband, nor is it the final say on what marriage means. Rather, it is an offering, a collection of reflections that he hopes will resonate with other couples, inspire other husbands, and perhaps even give future generations a reminder of what it means to love wholeheartedly.
To know Raymond is to know a man who dreams big but also cherishes the simple. He dreams of serving his country but also dreams of singing to his children before they sleep. He dreams of writing books that share his perspective but also treasures quiet mornings with coffee shared with his wife. He dreams of protecting others as a soldier but also of protecting his home as a husband and father.
At the heart of it all, Raymond Sonajo is not trying to be perfect. He is striving to be present. He is striving to be faithful to his wife, to his values, and to the life he envisions. He is striving to sing his way through difficulties, laugh through imperfections, and hold on to the love that makes all the effort worthwhile.
This is the man behind these pages. This is the husband who dares to write about the simple yet profound truth that a happy life begins with a happy wife. And this is only the beginning of his story.
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