Dear You Who Said "It's Okay" Too Many Times,
#TheSearchForLove
You thought love meant endurance.37Please respect copyright.PENANAfwJM3HrDqs
That to be chosen, you had to tolerate the things that hurt.37Please respect copyright.PENANAcDwazJNunA
That staying quiet, staying soft, staying "understanding"37Please respect copyright.PENANAIQ80YZ8WOc
would make them stay too.
You weren't weak for forgiving them.37Please respect copyright.PENANASZznmtofxw
You were just hungry for love.37Please respect copyright.PENANATyKnvIaoK5
And they knew it.37Please respect copyright.PENANAQdAUWrDCEi
They fed off that hunger,37Please respect copyright.PENANAgpOqifZwex
taking more than they ever gave back.
Each time you said "I'm okay,"37Please respect copyright.PENANAk7VMESSMEJ
you swallowed a truth that should've been spoken.37Please respect copyright.PENANAOjBLOg0PLD
Each time you forgave without receiving even a hint of remorse,37Please respect copyright.PENANAtp56PECSyO
you abandoned a part of yourself37Please respect copyright.PENANAZHgGTpX8Yu
just to be seen, just to be kept.
But real love doesn't ask you to bleed37Please respect copyright.PENANAjgGFAEcHoA
to earn someone's warmth.37Please respect copyright.PENANAMNWoiyi3n0
It doesn't demand your silence37Please respect copyright.PENANARn8cfpMsMV
just to keep the peace.
You weren't dramatic.37Please respect copyright.PENANAOMjhJzG0zH
You weren't too much.37Please respect copyright.PENANAVRTXtQfSEN
You were just a girl who wanted to be loved the right way37Please respect copyright.PENANAIN8wo7CAGY
but didn't yet know what the right way looked like.
Let me tell you now:37Please respect copyright.PENANA1UrXo7APiX
Love doesn't make you choose between being respected37Please respect copyright.PENANAWpWzjytjEo
and being held.37Please respect copyright.PENANAPp8rUijpqu
It doesn't turn your softness into a weapon against you.37Please respect copyright.PENANAL8DTzPEhxM
It doesn't make you feel guilty for hurting.
You can forgive, yes—37Please respect copyright.PENANAetfgAYhnS9
but not at the cost of losing yourself.
The girl who kept giving chances...37Please respect copyright.PENANAE7dREyQx7h
She didn't fail.37Please respect copyright.PENANALVqs67qlpp
She just hadn't learned yet37Please respect copyright.PENANANMCkpfB72T
that being loved shouldn't feel like begging.
I see you.37Please respect copyright.PENANA95zbMj5fzg
And I want you to know—37Please respect copyright.PENANAwyhTOjkxpT
you never had to try that hard to be worthy.
You always were.
With all the love you deserved back then,37Please respect copyright.PENANAriM62BMHwk
—From the version of you who finally learned what love really means
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